Bad Days & Upset friends - How would you handle it?

Lorna · Post by **Lorna** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 3:35 pm

I for one would understand and recognize that they were just having a bad day. I would not turn my back on a good person I've known for a long time simply because of one bad day.

I would also NOT take their sudden misbehavior personally. I would allow them the time and space to vent until they felt better.

SophieLawson · Post by **SophieLawson** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 3:54 pm

Hiya Lorna,

Everyone is allowed a bad day, week or month now and again, we're only human

Why do you ask?

Sophie xx

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 4:48 pm

Lorna, you know better than most, empathy is one of the primary characteristics we as crossdressers possess! Even some of the girls here have "bad" days and bless 'em that ain't afraid to tell us! We don't ignore them but we try and help them through this - who know we could be next!
Love,
Deborah

Lorna · Post by **Lorna** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 6:08 pm

SophieLawson wrote:Hiya Lorna,

Everyone is allowed a bad day, week or month now and again, we're only human Why do you ask?

Sophie xx

No reason, just wanted everyone's input.

Lorna · Post by **Lorna** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 6:09 pm

Deborah wrote:Lorna, you know better than most, empathy is one of the primary characteristics we as crossdressers possess! Even some of the girls here have "bad" days and bless 'em that ain't afraid to tell us! We don't ignore them but we try and help them through this - who know we could be next!
Love,
Deborah

That's true, it's just that I wish I had seen more of that yesterday. Long story.

Jassmine(SO) · Post by **Jassmine(SO)** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 7:15 pm

Hey Lorna

Sophie wrote:

Everyone is allowed a bad day, week or month now and again, we're only human

*Hugs & Love*

Elizabeth · Post by **Elizabeth** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 8:37 pm

Lorna

I can tell there is a story behind this, and I for one would really love to hear it. I have had my share of bad days, here included. I have got the psycho treatment, and kind compassion. Of course I never seemed to get much of the kind compassion until I came here. And not once, even my worst behavior has anyone here turned thier back on me. Even when perhaps I deserved it.

We are all here for you. Your fellow sisters ready to listen and cry with you if need be. I don't want to pressure you, but I know your sisters here, me included will not abandon you. Tell us when you are ready.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Amelie-Laveau · Post by **Amelie-Laveau** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 9:40 pm

My friends are already psycho, so it's no good calling them psycho, they would only take it as a compliment. I would have to understand what there going thru, see if my words or actions can help.

Even Psychos have bad days.
Amelie

PS-Not my friends here your not psycho

Loretta Ann · Post by **Loretta Ann** » Fri Aug 13, 2004 10:49 pm

I can't fathom any one voting to; Dismiss them as a "psycho" and turn your back on them.

Alexandra · Post by **Alexandra** » Sat Aug 14, 2004 4:35 am

Alexandra · Post by **Alexandra** » Sat Aug 14, 2004 4:36 am

(just kidding of course!)

Carol Ann · Post by **Carol Ann** » Sat Aug 14, 2004 7:19 am

Well now I think we all have had one or two of those day

I will forgive you and you me, so lets hug each other and enjoy the day.

Carol Ann

Lorna · Post by **Lorna** » Sat Aug 14, 2004 2:17 pm

Thanks girls!

But okay, I'll fess up...

Yesterday was a real bad day. It involved recieving touchy e-mails, getting cursed out in my voicemail at 7am, having a sharp stiletto heel go thru my foot the night before (ouch!!)

and then being labeled a "psycho" later on in the day. But anyhoo...

24 hours have passed, and it's forgotten!

Now I'm NOT superstitious at all, but yesterday was Friday the 13th. I wonder...

Anyway, feel free to answer the poll hypothetically...

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Bad Days & Upset friends - How would you handle it?

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Bad Days & Upset friends - How would you handle it?