First time out in Skirt

Elizabeth · Post by **Elizabeth** » Thu Sep 02, 2004 1:33 am

Hi girls,

Today I went out for the first time in a skirt. A nice black polished cotton just above the knee, zippper and hooks in front and side access pockets. With it wore a vertical pinstipped black blouse with long sleeves, cuffs, a collar, and white pinstripes. I wore very light tan hose, and some black sandles that have on single strap just past the toes crossing the entire foot.

It was just awesome. I went to where my wife works looking for her, to get my laptop back. Apparently she called in and said she was in a fender bender, which of course was a lie, because I kicked her out, and she went back to her boyfriends house.

I went to the JCPenny where she works, went to the department where she works, and asked for her. They guy told me the story, I did not bust her out. I just said "well, tell her her husband came by looking for her." The guy looked totally bewildered and said "Her what?" and then I repeated like I was talking to a toddler and said "Her Husband".

I know I should not be bad like that, but knowing it embarrasses her, I just could not resist. Now she will have to explain how she lives with her lover. and all that stuff. Anyway, I later took my kids to the mall, and had another great day.

Tomorrow I have another new skirt I have not worn, and am looking forward to another great day. I remember when I first came here someone, Sally I think, suggested that I dress for 7 days as a woman and make sure that is what I really want.

Well, after doing it for a while now, I can tell you, I hate wearing boy clothes, and will only do so when absolutely necessary.

Again, I just feel great.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Loretta Ann · Post by **Loretta Ann** » Thu Sep 02, 2004 3:04 am

Elizabeth

I am sorry things did not turn out the way you had hoped.

Take your time now and work through your pain. then put your heals on and run hard for the other door. before you do that make sure you have no need to look back. You need to find closure before you can move on.

Merinda · Post by **Merinda** » Thu Sep 02, 2004 3:14 am

Hi Elizabeth ,

I shouldn't laugh but the look on the face of your wifes workmate must have been priceless

Elizabeth · Post by **Elizabeth** » Thu Sep 02, 2004 8:26 am

Merinda,

It was priceless. She puts up such a phony facade, I just can't help but to put in the real world every now and again, even though it is not nice, and probably not good for either of us.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Jassmine(SO) · Post by **Jassmine(SO)** » Thu Sep 02, 2004 11:30 am

Hi Elizabeth,

I am so sorry things did not work out as you had hoped

Hmmmm....Asking a guy she works with to inform her that her husband was looking for her, strikes me as a perfectly legitimate thing to do. I mean, you are her husband and you were looking for her to get your property back. No harm, no foul, as far as I can tell. She chose to lie. So, she owns any problems her lies will cause for her.

Just my humble opinion.

*Hugs & Love*

Ahzz · Post by **Ahzz** » Thu Sep 02, 2004 1:28 pm

I know I should not be bad like that, but knowing it embarrasses her, I just could not resist. Now she will have to explain how she lives with her lover. and all that stuff. Anyway, I later took my kids to the mall, and had another great day.

You have a right to tell the world of YOUR marital status and with whom.

I do think it's wrong to tell the world just for the aspect of embarrasing her. You are better than that.

Though I can certainly understand from an outsiders perspective how enticing and satisfying it can be to yank the rug out from under someone that appears to be using your good nature.

My take (which may be 100% completely wrong, so take with a grain of salt) is that she's pretty darn good at presenting a false front.

Do you really want someone around that uses others and fibs like this?

SophieLawson · Post by **SophieLawson** » Thu Sep 02, 2004 1:59 pm

Elizabeth!

Going out in skirts is justttt awesome, and like you I'm really beginning to hate wearing boy clothes

Did the shoes have heels? Clickkk clickkk

Hope you have another cool day tomorrow, tell us all about it

Sophie xx

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Thu Sep 02, 2004 7:45 pm

Elizabeth, honey, just remember, "be the oak!" You are certainly getting a choke hold on everything, just hold on tight!
Virginia

Elizabeth · Post by **Elizabeth** » Fri Sep 03, 2004 1:53 am

Hi girls,

Yes, I have to admit, I did it just to embarrass her. I know it was wrong, and I am usually a better person than that. He did not need to know, and there was certainly no need for him to tell her I had been there. I just wanted her co-workers to know that she is a phony. I was pure spite, and I do feel ashamed about it.

But it really felt good. I'm sorry. I can't say that if I had it to over I would do it any different. I would like to think I would, as I am usually able to keep my composure. But I was still pretty angry about her slamming my head with the hatch of the Blazer, as hard as she could.

It really has been "The War of the Roses". I never thought this could happen to us. But I also must say, I have not shed one tear. I have already mourned her loss. It was just a last chance thing. I will always be able to tell my children I did everything I could to save my marriage.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Merinda · Post by **Merinda** » Fri Sep 03, 2004 2:34 am

Elizabeth wrote:Hi girls,

Yes, I have to admit, I did it just to embarrass her. I know it was wrong, and I am usually a better person than that. He did not need to know, and there was certainly no need for him to tell her I had been there. I just wanted her co-workers to know that she is a phony. I was pure spite, and I do feel ashamed about i

Dont be too hard on yourself Elizabeth , sometimes its nessesary to take a stand .

Loretta Ann · Post by **Loretta Ann** » Fri Sep 03, 2004 3:42 am

Elizabeth,

The chance that what you did will be seen as hurtful behavior, by her colleagues is very likely. You probably have given them reason to be sympathetic to wards her. It certainly will not come across as compassionate or loving behavior. I think you are intelligent enough to understand this.

They will ask themselves what you hoped to gain by doing what you did. All she needs to do is tell them you kicked her out. And that you are a cross-dresser and she could not live with that, or who knows what she will think of.

Some how you need to get beyond this, so that you can be free to focus on the next chapter of your life. The old chapter needs to die. Accepting the reality that it is finished is not unlike accepting the reality that you are a cross-dresser and will be one until the day that you die. This is what I meant when I told you you need to find closure. Until you are able to do that you will be like a prisoner condemned to hurting yourself, just like you were condemned to hurt yourself by being in denial that you were a cross-dresser.

You need to find away to let go, and I know that is not easy when the hurt is so fresh. And I also know that at the present time you are unable to be any different than you are. But hon this is where you need to get to.

Elizabeth · Post by **Elizabeth** » Fri Sep 03, 2004 3:50 am

Darlene,

I agree with everything you said. I know I will, it will just take a little time. That is why I wanted to acknowedge that I know what I did was wrong. Not because it may have hurt her, you are correct, it probably helped her, but because it diminished me to something I don't want to be.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Loretta Ann · Post by **Loretta Ann** » Fri Sep 03, 2004 4:26 am

Elizabeth,

Girl you are beautiful.

Lorna · Post by **Lorna** » Fri Sep 03, 2004 4:16 pm

LOL!!! That's priceless! I wish I could have seen the guard's face.