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Mellissa
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just an update

Post by Mellissa »

Ok so its been a couple of weeks sinds i told my wife
at first it was hard but now things go realy good
in the evening i dress up and she doesnt mind at all she even told me i have realy sexy legs (i love to hear that)
so now were realy ok and in the evening we just do our thing just now i'm dressed up and i feel realy good
She also noticed i'm a mutch happier person less stress and worries
So i think were doing great and i still love her dearly she the greatest


btw she bought some realy nice pantyhoses for me as a gift
the colors are realy right but i like that
(just go check and let me know what you think)

http://crossdressers-haven.com/coppermi ... =108&pos=1

http://crossdressers-haven.com/coppermi ... =108&pos=4

love Mellissa <oooo>
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Lorna
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Post by Lorna »

Hi Melissa,

Very sexy!! =D>
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Kersten Lee
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Post by Kersten Lee »

Mellissa,

That is just the best news. When I could dress at home anytime it was the greatest. For 1.5 years I have worn feminine clothes full time in our home. I love the freedom to throw on a dress or skirt or top. Sometimes if so inclined I wear a pair of pretty heels. Winter is coming and I will wear nylons more often. It is so nice that your wonderful wife is buying you presents, so soon. She must be very special.

Can anyone tell me why when I click on these addresses, my crt says no picture. This happened once last week also. I though it was just a glitch.

Kersten
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Virginia
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Post by Virginia »

Mellissa,
Congratulations and skip on honey!
I don't wish to be a downer, but if you don't know, this "ride" for GG's can be a real roller coaster, meaning that even though she may seem to accept Melllissa now, she may have second thoughts in the future, a month, six months, a year maybe never, just be alert for it and be prepared to adapt!
Just a word of advice,
Love,
Virginia
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Post by Beauty »

Hi Melissa,

It's great that you like it here. We can't hear that enough. :)

Virginia is right. Your SO's opinion about CD'ing can change. So make sure you are careful about your introduction to CD'ing to her. What I mean is, do it in little doses. This might not completely help either, but it's usually the most successful way I've seen people here keep their relationship together.

After a year things will change with her. We've had women and their husbands here and the wife even went to a support meeting only to later pull both of them from the site and denounce the entire scene. So again, Virginia is quite fair with her insight into the roller coaster ride.

You sound like you're doing great right now, so only focus on those great legs you like to hear about. :)
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Mellissa
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Post by Mellissa »

Well i like to thank all for your words of advice
And yes i take it at heart
I take it realy slow let my wife decide whats ok and whats not
But we also talk about it a lot couse i want to know if there any thing bothering her or not
And i tell her how mutch she means to me more then i used to do
guess i should have given her more credit in the past
she really wonderfull and thats what i keep telling her

I also tell stuff i posted on the forum couse i promised her no more secrets
So i dont mind letting her read some of the things i say inhere
And she's ok with that she thinks you all are nice people and realy down to earth
And very supportive

So thanks from me and my wife

LOts of hugs Mellissa <oooo>

P.s Yes I do realy like it inhere :P
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SophieLawson
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Post by SophieLawson »

Mellisa, keep on enjoyying yaself number 1! It's also cool that your tinking about your wife so much!

Ohh, did I say how damn hot you look in those fishnets! Fantastic :) Tell your wife she has good taste :)

Sophie xx
Jassmine(SO)
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Post by Jassmine(SO) »

Hey Mellissa ..o)..

Tres chic!!<oooo>

*Hugs & Love* @->->- *^^*
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Post by Kristen »

Mellissa, echoing everything that all the girls here have already been said and I agree with the cahnging of the opinions of SO's, you can adapt too.
I think it is so great that your wife is acepting you. It takes a lot on bothe sides to be a couple.. Keep up the communication. My siscere congratulation to both of you. May this be a pleseat journey for both of you. a.......Keep smilin Keep dressin, Keep postin........ Kristen
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