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Brie · Post by **Brie** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 7:11 am

Hello everyone- I'm Keith, happily married to a great wife, but since a child, have liked the feel of women's clothes/lingerie. If I had better looks, surely I'd have adopted a different lifestyle. Happy new year (a better one at that)!

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 8:06 am

Hello Brianna

Welcome to the Forum.

So what prompted you to start wearing "women's clothes/lingerie"?

Brie · Post by **Brie** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 8:54 am

Thanks for your kind welcome. What prompted me? I've not quite considered that before,... must have been near age 11 I was just drawn to my mom's drawer of panties/girdles. Looking went to touching, which led to trying them on. I don't know what other say, but I just found the feeling exhilirating, tingling all over, obsessed with the smoothness of material, tightness of the pantyhose or girdle, & transforming my body into smoothness all around. Wow. To be honest, I don't do it much anymore, however the desire exists. My wife is supportive, but as with any spouse, may fear it would lead to losing me to another lifstyle... thanks for asking and listening. I've never had the chance to disuss this openly.

K

Joanna_S · Post by **Joanna_S** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 9:10 am

Hi Keith and welcome !

It´s good to hear that your wife is supportive for your CDing. I believe, all wives and gfs have the same fear of losing their partner, when they found out. At first they think that you want to change your sex or that you might be gay. I hope you´ll encourge her to read this forum and offer her information about crossdressing. In time everything gets easier when she sees that nothing really changes. And remember also to show her your love every day. Surprise her sometimes with flowers, gifts etc. to make her feel special. Tell her that she´s the real woman in your family and you´re not trying to compete with her

Enjoy you dressing, it´s a wonderful gift.
Best wishes to you and your family!

Joanna

Brie · Post by **Brie** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 9:26 am

Joanna- thanks for your kindness and encouragement! Have a wonderful day.

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 9:36 am

keith33029 (now BriannaCD) wrote:Hello everyone- I'm Keith, happily married to a great wife, but since a child, have liked the feel of women's clothes/lingerie.

I realize now that I misread your first post. I thought that you and your wife had a child, and then you started dressing.

Not that you started when you were a child

I started pretty much the same way. Found an old nightgown of my mothers and was driven my some unforseen force of nature to put it on.

Brie · Post by **Brie** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 10:29 am

Donna, Joanna, I know I'm just 1 of a bunch of people here, but your personableness really puts a person at ease. Thanks.

I realize in just a few short postings, that talking this out is good for me, however, I probably have issues to resolve before disclosing the forum to my wife. Such as a tendency to have bisexual desires when dressed, which she knows about (thus I've tabled the whole CD thing for a while sine I've been married for a 2nd time). I don't get me wrong, I'm not here to talk sex, but the issue is a complication for me. Probably ought to discuss it with her when the time is right. What do you think?

Brie · Post by **Brie** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 10:31 am

Is there a more appropriate section in the forum for this type of discussion? Or does it matter?

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 12:04 pm

Hi Brianna--
Certainly you're not alone in having to deal with bisexual feelings when dressed. You can find some discussions under "Coping for CDs." There may be threads under "Do You Know How I Feel," too, as that is the section for SOs and CDs together.

There's no harm in mentioning it as part of "what I'm dealing with," and it does get discussed on here, within limits. There are always emails and private messages to go to for support, too. Feel free to use my email in the profile section. You can also go to: Reneereyes.com. Her website is one of the best I've ever seen for explaining and analyzing who we are, as CDs.

Welcome to the forum!

Post by **DonnaT** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 12:13 pm

Well, now that you've written about your desire, I would think it best to talk to you wife about it before showing her this forum. That way she won't read your post without some prior knowledge.

I've invited my wife to post here, and on another forum. She signed up here, but hasn't posted yet.

As for ones sexuality, we are what we are and I have no problem with anyone that says they are gay or bi. Anita has identified some other places here to discuss it more if you want.

Brie · Post by **Brie** » Mon Jan 03, 2005 12:28 pm

Thanks a bunch- Anita & DonnaT both!

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