Coping!?

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 4:05 pm

Hi Girls,
First hello and welcome to all the new ladies and thanks again for all the support from my "old" girl friends. I have read a lot of the posts but just have not been able to keep up (87 wigs Stef! - amazing, I thought I had too many with 9?

). For a quick update for those who may be briefly interested: I have moved to our basement - ain't bad, have my own TV, bedroom, gas log fire place and almost enough closet space to hang all my girly wardrobe, make-up, shoes, coats, etc. ( My attorney recommended the basement route and it seems to be working out for a while, but divorce is eminent! who know how long - lots of things to work out there,) Anyway I get to dress almost every day and come and go as I please. I also have a new friend who is transistioning (very costly for her) and we visit and talk, but not nearly enough). Cute story - we went out to lunch and she dressed as most GG's jeans, sweatshirt - you know the drill! Anyway here comes Virginia and you know her style "Conservatively Sexy!" Clash ! Oh yeah! Me in my skirt, silk blouse and new white fur coat, We got some looks which you know would not bother me but we talked about it afterward and decided that the wide varience in dress attracted the attention not us a ladies per say! You know what I mean, but it was fun and you know no one hasseled us ( I just, today, set another World Bench Press Record of 335 pounds, which ain't bad for an old broad!)
Anyway that's my story and I am sticking to it, My wife is at her mothers now and its snowing like crazy and Virgina is calling me and I may dress and go visit my friend!
Love you girls and I will try and be more attentive to the forum, but no guarantees, and Donna T your a sweetheart!
Love ya all!!
Virginia

Elizabeth · Post by **Elizabeth** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 4:28 pm

Hi Virginia,

I know the sress of a break up, sounds like you are coping as well as can be expected. I am glad you have found a companion. Having an understanding ear, and shoulder to lean on can be everything.

I know we miss you on the forum, but we also understand you situation wish you all the best. Love you Virginia.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Jassmine(SO) · Post by **Jassmine(SO)** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 4:38 pm

Hi Virginia,

Welcome back

*Hugs & Love*

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 5:54 pm

Hi Virginia,

It's eerie you posted. I was putting away dishes today and thought about you for some reason.

I'm glad I got the questions I was asking answered.

I'm sorry this is happening, but I'm happy that you're feeling ok and are healthy. The 335 proves it.

Beauty

Post by **DonnaT** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 8:13 pm

Virginia. Missed ya

Jadeanne · Post by **Jadeanne** » Sat Jan 29, 2005 9:47 pm

Virginia,

Like Beauty, I was wondering how you were doing.

Please keep us up to date on your situation as often as your circumstances allow.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jadeanne

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 12:16 am

Hi Virginia--
I was wondering how your wife was doing with her medical problems, and had noticed your absence. It's good to hear from you. I did the downstairs/upstairs routine with one break-up, but we had to share a kitchen, and that meant fireworks a lot of the time. It sounds like you have a workable situation there.

And yes, it is good to have a TG friend to lean on at a time like this.
A

Kyra · Post by **Kyra** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 7:22 am

Hi Virginia,
Glad to hear from you, but sad to hear the news. I do hope you're doing well. I'm sure this is no easy thing. Take care and let us know how you're doing when you have time.

We're all here for you.

Hugs,
Kyra

Loretta Ann · Post by **Loretta Ann** » Mon Jan 31, 2005 12:06 pm

Virginia,

It is good to hear from you again, I too have been thinking of you these last few days. Sorry your marriage is going the way it is, but am glad you are able to cope with it.

Love Darlene.