Buying or Wearing?
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Cindy Michelle
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Buying or Wearing?
Just a short poll here. My drawer is so full of panties, I have lots more than I need, AND I STILL GET EXCITED ABOUT SHOPPING FOR MORE!! It is my observation that I am not alone in this desire. That begs the question, do CD'rs get more enjoyment (satisfaction) out of shopping/buying or out of wearing? Cindy
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I definitely like both - and I have an added advantage - my accepting wife's shoes are a smaller size and her legs are shorter (I would stretch out her pantyhose), but we share all other sizes!
Our closets are pretty full, but I look often at catalogs and some online sites, once in a while QVC during channel surfing (mostly for ideas, we have each bought 1 item from their website).
I try to wear each article of my clothing (a few new things, mostly wife's hand me downs) at least once in a while. My wife has only a few rules about borrowing her clothes - not if she is wearing them right then (no comment about what negotiations go on then
), and she gets to wear new items first.
I hope this is an adequate answer to your question.
Jadeanne
Our closets are pretty full, but I look often at catalogs and some online sites, once in a while QVC during channel surfing (mostly for ideas, we have each bought 1 item from their website).
I try to wear each article of my clothing (a few new things, mostly wife's hand me downs) at least once in a while. My wife has only a few rules about borrowing her clothes - not if she is wearing them right then (no comment about what negotiations go on then
I hope this is an adequate answer to your question.
Jadeanne
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For me I do like to shop as it is relaxing and exciting all at once. Now mind you for me it does not matter what I am shopping for just that I am shopping. As for wearing I wear it just for me in my bedroom not to pass or for sexual pleasure but because I love soft fabrics. Now I am with Cindy in the fact I have way more panties then I need and will buy more.
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Oh I love to do both
, when ever I go into a store I have to make a trip into the womens dept. just to see what they have
Now shoes I have a thing for,
sometimes my wife will get upset
"another pair of shoes?", "you got more shoes then the store does". I love to wear all my things and I take the time about once a week to really get dolled up and look my very best
I believe being a lady is the greatest feeling in the world.
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Hi all,
I also buy more than I can ever possibly wear, I think. However, I've found an interesting way to justify this habit; I need to know that I have dressing options that suit my mood. When a woman stands, frowning, before the open door of her closet and complains she has nothing to wear, I think that's what she means--she has nothing to wear that suits her mood. I'm like that.
I do the same thing with my library. Although I buy far more books than I can ever read at any given time, I want to know that such and such a book is there on the shelf when the mood to read it strikes me.
Of course, this forces me to buy as cheaply as possible (both books and women's clothing) so I'm always on the hunt for clearance sales, second-hand stores, factory outlets, etc. It works.
And, yes, of course I get as much pleasure out of the wearing as I do out of the buying. I've yet to combine both, though. Some of my sisters, here, have mentioned shopping trips en femme. That's something I've never done. Maybe some day, who knows?
Love,
CJ
I also buy more than I can ever possibly wear, I think. However, I've found an interesting way to justify this habit; I need to know that I have dressing options that suit my mood. When a woman stands, frowning, before the open door of her closet and complains she has nothing to wear, I think that's what she means--she has nothing to wear that suits her mood. I'm like that.
I do the same thing with my library. Although I buy far more books than I can ever read at any given time, I want to know that such and such a book is there on the shelf when the mood to read it strikes me.
Of course, this forces me to buy as cheaply as possible (both books and women's clothing) so I'm always on the hunt for clearance sales, second-hand stores, factory outlets, etc. It works.
And, yes, of course I get as much pleasure out of the wearing as I do out of the buying. I've yet to combine both, though. Some of my sisters, here, have mentioned shopping trips en femme. That's something I've never done. Maybe some day, who knows?
Love,
CJ

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Hello, everyone.
Well I love shopping either online or in the store. Online, a few places like Land's End have a "virtual model" that you can model after your femme self and try the clothes on. Kind of neat. In person, I've learned that in most large department stores, most clerks don't give you a second look in the women's department, so it's no longer intimidating, but a bit fun to lay a new skirt on the check out counter and buy--any second glance can usually be disarmed with a friendly smile. (Not that I go out that much. Money is an object, after all.)
But really, the fun of buying is the anticipation of wearing something new and nice. And donning something new that feels good and looks good is a great way to start the day.
Love,
Sara
Well I love shopping either online or in the store. Online, a few places like Land's End have a "virtual model" that you can model after your femme self and try the clothes on. Kind of neat. In person, I've learned that in most large department stores, most clerks don't give you a second look in the women's department, so it's no longer intimidating, but a bit fun to lay a new skirt on the check out counter and buy--any second glance can usually be disarmed with a friendly smile. (Not that I go out that much. Money is an object, after all.)
But really, the fun of buying is the anticipation of wearing something new and nice. And donning something new that feels good and looks good is a great way to start the day.
Love,
Sara
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Panties are fun to shop for, especially when you get great deals on some really cute ones. 
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Of course wearing is the best for me. But, you do have to buy before you can wear them! LOL
I'm with most everyone else.... I do LOVE to shop. Even if I don't buy anything, I still enjoy looking. I know I have more items than I need... but, again, maybe not. I love to wear something different most of the time, and it all depends on my mood or what would match best.
I'm with most everyone else.... I do LOVE to shop. Even if I don't buy anything, I still enjoy looking. I know I have more items than I need... but, again, maybe not. I love to wear something different most of the time, and it all depends on my mood or what would match best.
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re buying lingerie
well as i am a vendor i am always on the road and i always pass whatever lingerie shops that are still in business.so if i have time and i feel like shopping i will buy a few pair of panties and some stockings .my wife says that i have too much lingerie but as i love to look for new things i always manage to buy at least one new bra a month,and a slip if i see something pretty.i think that we all can never have too much as just looking at a lingerie shop makes me want to go in ...love phylisanne

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