My SO told me today she wished I would cut my nails shorter. She said it embarrassed her around our friends.She knows I crossdress, she doesn't know to what extent. I wear panties exclusively, no drab underwear.
I have only recently come out to her. She is okay with my panties, and my night wear, and I wear her shorts. The ones I wear are too small for her anyway.
I'm just kinda putting it on her a little at a time. Not pushing too hard.
I comprised with her today, on the nails. I got a manicure and had my manicurist corner them, but not shorten them too much. They still look great and, I believe, more stylish.
We have been married many, many years, have grown children, and many grand children. I have kept my crossdressing in the closet all these years. I feel better now that she knows, but don't think I will ever be able to tell anyone else in my family.
The kids are so busy with their own lives and family that we mostly only see them on special occasions. So, we just go our merry little ways, and do our own things.
I said all that to say, I don't want to embarrass my lovely SO around friends.
Give and take, I think, is an important ingredient in a happy marriage.
What do you think?
Have you asked her how important it is to her? If she's kind of been giving, can you say you feel you've been doing the same?
