Hi Darlene,
It did sound critical, but you're my friend and I'm honored that you feel free enough to ask me.

It was a fair question and I'll be happy to answer.
I should have probably worded my post better. I haven't only select friends who would be ok with me CD'ing.

I had these male friends before I was even sure I was transgendered.
I chose these friends and let them into my life because over time they loved and respected me as I did them. Goodness knows I've had major spats with all of them, but through it all our friendships were strong enough to weather bad times.

Our good times really outweighed the bad times. Each of them have told me things that they wanted to not let another person know (secrets) and because I'm TG'd I've really appreciated what that means and their secrets are safe with me. I feel keeping secrets is a badge of honor to be the holder of them.

I told them about me being transgendered, but I haven't ever asked them to keep it a secret. That wouldn't be too cool, plus I couldn't control if they did any way. Ya' know what I mean?

They know I am not out to the world, but if they tell someone then it was meant to be.
I have totally told people things before where I'm like, "Don't tell anyone.", but even when I do that I know that once out, it's out. I honestly expect them to confide in someone. I think it's normal and only fair.
I hope that clears things up a bit.

I just re-read all of the support I got again and it just feels so good to have support from so many here.

I LOVE IT!!
Thank you all!!!!

Beauty