drifting too far from the sure

Eva · Post by **Eva** » Tue Nov 22, 2005 11:55 am

For a week I thought I was drifting away, but it seems like I am only tacking.
Luv,
eva

Jessie · Post by **Jessie** » Tue Nov 22, 2005 12:55 pm

Well Eva, what ever is good for you is what is important but I sure am glad to have you here.

Beauty · Post by **Beauty** » Tue Nov 22, 2005 7:04 pm

Hi Eva,

What did you mean you were drifting?

Post by **DonnaT** » Tue Nov 22, 2005 7:32 pm

So, you're coming about then?

Developing the ability to change your tacking style can improve your manoeuvrability in find your direction.

Virginia · Post by **Virginia** » Tue Nov 22, 2005 9:38 pm

Tack to the point with the wind behind you and sail on girl!!!! We are enjoying our "Magical Mystery Tour!" tacking and coming about!!
Love,
Virginia

Rikki · Post by **Rikki** » Tue Nov 22, 2005 10:14 pm

Who has the right of way on a port tack??? Heave to, everyone and frill onward. rikki

Post by **DonnaT** » Wed Nov 23, 2005 9:39 am

The starboard tranny, being on the right, has the right of way, but shouldn't take it for granted.

Amelie-Laveau · Post by **Amelie-Laveau** » Wed Nov 23, 2005 6:08 pm

What is everyone talking about here?????

I am so blonde.

Eva · Post by **Eva** » Wed Nov 23, 2005 10:25 pm

So what do i mean by drifting,like a boat that's not at anchor, yet hasn'traised its sails yet, Hey, I'm no sailor, just into a little symbolism, I mean like getting wishy-washy and wondering about everything, even though still dressing and poking about on the computer. Feeling i was reading the same stuff again and again and getting tired of electronic communication....feeling gnawing estrangement once more ...all this in one week, gals. one week....then I tacked and while I never started a post, decided to write this small one...and i feel better about everything. ...I think starting a post is a big step for me. It's not that I am quiet about things, but Im more reactive. That's all. No big deal...I wish I could go out in my skirt and sweatshirt, that should be no big deal too. I feel very constricted. Wow, did i say all that? I'm going to hide under my bed for a while.

hey amelie-laveau, I wish I was so blonde too

CJ · Post by CJ » Wed Nov 23, 2005 11:44 pm

Hi all,

Eva,

The winds of grace are always blowing but we must raise our sails.
—Sri Ramakrishna

Love,
CJ

Post by **DonnaT** » Thu Nov 24, 2005 8:50 am

Amelie-Laveau wrote:What is everyone talking about here?????

I am so blonde.

Hi Amelie, just a lot of 'boating' language being used.

Amelie-Laveau · Post by **Amelie-Laveau** » Thu Nov 24, 2005 8:52 am

Thanks Eva, I now understand. I think we all drift about from time to time. Drifting can be nice, it slows us down and gives us time to take everything in.

It's not very easy being a blonde, it takes years of hard work to live life in a complete vacuum.

Thanks Donna,, I have never been out to sea, but I have felt a salty spray hit my face from time to time.

Eva · Post by **Eva** » Thu Nov 24, 2005 1:20 pm

Hi
CJ that is a nice and appropriate quote.

and Amelie-Laveau: I tired to live life in a complete vacuum, but it was too noisy in there (ask Donna to explain that one to you)

have a good day, all of you, and the others too, I'm sailing the cds again ,
luv it
and youse,
e

Elinor · Post by **Elinor** » Sat Nov 26, 2005 6:46 am

A man has the right to be feminine too, there is nothing wrong in being in touch with your feminine side and if a guy wishes to allow his femininity to grow and he desires to wear a skirt or dress he should do so.

I too wish I could just wear a sweatshirt and a skirt and it being no big deal and society accepting it as normal and right.
Being a Janegirl is not a curse its a blessing a gift to enjoy and have fun with.
Clothes have no gender if it feels right and it feels good then enjoy it, it is your only life and its short, so I think one should live life to the full wearing high heels a wig and a dress is hardly the worst thing a man can do.
Its normal for a guy to love feminine things too.

Being in touch with ones femininity and allowing the woman within freedom to express herself is a good thing. Trying to stop her from living too is a bad idea as it will lead any man to madness.
Turn your boat around from the dark side and sail into the light and be a more feminine male in a skirt and enjoy the journey.

By allowing yourself to be feminine once in a while will keep you sane.
If the female part is strong then enjoy the ride its fun.
And its normal whatever that is.

Oh how I hope to see the day when a guy can wear a skirt also and no one thinks its odd.

Stephanie H · Post by **Stephanie H** » Sun Nov 27, 2005 3:48 pm

Eva:
It is after we drift for a while, that we get our bearings to continue to navigate our lives. Enjoy the drifting. Navigation will follow and you will become more true to yourself.

Crossdressers-Haven.com

drifting too far from the sure

drifting too far from the sure

guess all of you have had this drifting feeling,right?