Teenager help

Jessica Simpson · Post by **Jessica Simpson** » Tue Jul 11, 2006 4:48 pm

i started crossdressing 2 years ago. I dont really like my moms clothes. i like wearing high boots and tight clothes. how could i get these clothes without my parents knowing? theres a store nearby i can ride my bike to is that a good idea?

Gaven McLaren · Post by **Gaven McLaren** » Tue Jul 11, 2006 8:18 pm

First let me tell you it is hard to hide it from parents. If you do your own laundry it is a little easier until someone tries to help. As for the question on where to get the clothes being that you say you are **, I would suggest at a second hand or thrift store. The prices will be lower and you will not have made a huge investment if your parents find out and decide to through them away. You should also be ready in case they do find out to answer some hard questions:
1. Are you gay?
This could be a hard question at your age as you are most likely just starting to know your self.
2. Do you want to be a girl? Do you want to have a sex change?
I put them in the same category because they are the same question when a parent asks them.
3. Why did you start?
I still have a hard time answering this question. My answer was to see what it felt like. Which was a true answer but it does not fully answer the why.

I hope this helps you out.

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Jessica Simpson · Post by **Jessica Simpson** » Wed Jul 12, 2006 2:10 am

well yes i do want to be a girl and at the same time i want to be a boy cuz i like girls a lot, a real lot. and i could probably get a lot too.

Aileen · Post by **Aileen** » Wed Jul 12, 2006 11:09 am

I hope it's OK if I try to answer this, because it seems more like a question for crossdressers than GGs. Consider being patient and waiting until you're grown up, then you can buy all the clothes you want on mail order. Ebay is great for vintage dresses. I'm not saying you have to wait, but it can really be difficult going through all this with your parents.

Loy B(SO) · Post by **Loy B(SO)** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:48 am

This is a hard one to answer especially with your age. At that age I would not invest alot in clothes especially if your parents found out,got mad about the situation and threw them all out.A good thrift shop or a discount store that sells clothes would be good.

Jessica Simpson · Post by **Jessica Simpson** » Thu Jul 13, 2006 6:53 pm

thx for the help

Shannon Vega · Post by **Shannon Vega** » Tue Sep 19, 2006 11:45 pm

i also am a teen and i hide my clothes in my closet. I got caght after getting alot of clothes and underwaer...i was embarassed thenm i started to just express my self as a girl more and my mom now respects it we get our hair and nails done togetehr and go shopping its awweesome

Azurielle · Post by **Azurielle** » Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:42 pm

From personnal experience, I strongly recommend only coming out of the closet when financially independent from your parents (After they paid your college tuition). It'll help you avoid many problems along the way.