Scared silly

Jill S · Post by **Jill S** » Sat Oct 07, 2006 10:01 am

My wife comes home today! Not sure how long I will wait for the talk but not tonight. I have a new guilt trip working now. If we get intimate before I tell her and than "come out" ! Wish I didn't have to do this, My stress level is off the charts. Dealing with stress in "the usuall way seems wrong now" . Let you know what happens in a few days.

SilverLady(SO) · Post by **SilverLady(SO)** » Sat Oct 07, 2006 10:46 am

Wishing you the best of luck, Jill - and no matter what happens, we'll be here for you and the wife!

- SL

Jill S · Post by **Jill S** » Sat Oct 07, 2006 10:53 am

Thank you for putting up with my ramblings. Stupid update: I was watching History channel thing on Startrek, A woman was interviewed and was dressed in trek cloths. I started laughing so hard about "Trekdressers"

I about peed myself. Laughfter is a good stree reliver!

Anita · Post by **Anita** » Sat Oct 07, 2006 12:06 pm

Hang in there, Jill. You will get through it, your wife will go through it with you, and you'll both come out on the other side. Given your concerns about intimacy, you might end up talking sooner than you intended. This is a very hard thing to keep under cover, once you've resolved to go forward. Believe me, I know that part of it. My thoughts will be with you during the day.

Absaroka · Post by **Absaroka** » Sat Oct 07, 2006 1:25 pm

I hope it goes well.

Absaroka

Merinda · Post by **Merinda** » Sun Oct 08, 2006 4:19 am

All the very best Jill ,

its a difficult thing to do but sometimes it has to be done