Great afternoon/evening out enfemme

Tell us about the things you like to do, and what you do, when you go out en femme. All other topics will be moved to appropriate forum.

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Karren Hutton
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Great afternoon/evening out enfemme

Post by Karren Hutton »

Well another company sponsered crossdressing even.... nothing like crossdressing on an expense account!! hehe Had a meeting in centrl WV so drove down the night before... enfemme... 3 hour drive, changed at a nearby rest area. Drank too much diet coke so had to hit the ladies room at each of the 4 rest areas I passed!! Bumped into this young girl going into one and she said "Sorry, Maam"...

Did a little shopping at a Kmart, dinner at Wendys but did not check into the hotel enfemme... Chickened out... Still have that fear of putting my real name and credit card ino out there with the fact that I crossdress.....

Ohhh well... Here's some photos....

http://new.photos.yahoo.com/slideshow?v ... 2392620982

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Great photos, I loved them.
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Post by Stephanie H »

Looks as if you had a great time. Great pictures.
On my drives to Fla and back, I always stay in the same hotel and book the reseveration in my spouse's name. This way when I check-in they are expecting a female. Having done this numerous times, I have only gotten one questionable look.
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Wonderful pictures!!!!
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Karren,
You look great! You know you could probably get a credit card issued in your name. I love the contrasting scarf too. You had a good coach or your a natural, either way - you go girl!
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Thanks.... and I have no coach... my wife has very little fashion sence... lol.. Sooooo I have had to teach myself. Can't put together a male outfit to save my life but give me a dress and some accessories... lol

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Karren,
Well, I am from the same school, that is with the ex-wife. I have no doubt I could out dress her on my very worse day! She does have an excuse in that she had red(ish) hair, but gheesh, she always wore such bland looking stuff. Anyway that was another life time. I am still considering dressing up and going to visit her and her parents ---SL thinks that unless they saw my car or I spoke they would not recognize me at all. Still thinking about doing it.
You really do look good!!!!!!
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Virginia wrote:I am still considering dressing up and going to visit her and her parents ---SL thinks that unless they saw my car or I spoke they would not recognize me at all. Still thinking about doing it.
I don't think anyone in the ex-family, even the "kids", would recognize you - - unless you spoke or if they saw your car or us together, that is. You know that I would be the give-away clue to your identity, unfortunately. I would just *love* to witness their reactions, though, and to get some pictures of the event if/when it happens - time to get out my zoom camera!! :mrgreen:

Karren - You look absolutely wonderful, and you definitely pass, IMHO! Thank you for sharing your photos, I really enjoy looking at them!!

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Karren,

I concur with several of the girls here. Your outfits are awesome and an inspiration for me. You defineately pass and I could only hope to come close!

Keep posting those pictures.. I look at them to get ideas.
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Hi Karren--
The pictures are good--you do know how to take pictures! Really like that mirror shot; you look very happy there.

Getting a femme name credit card is probably not going to help you out if it's a business expense and/or a company card. I have femme debit cards, but hardly ever use them when dressed. I'm seldom asked to show ID, so it really doesn't matter whose name is on the card.

But I hope you can get around the check-in bottleneck somehow. I have a post-op friend who traveled a lot in her former corporate job. On her trips, she did everything enfemme except the actual meetings. She was a very high-profile person in the company, and she was also using company cards. So I'll ask her how she dealt with that.
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Thanks..... Well, I still have that nagging thought in the back of my head everytime I start a new adventure, that I look like a guy in a dress.... but that fades after the first few encounters with the public... And I like the idea of making a reservation in my wifes name and maybe even borrowing her credit card... same numbers, different name...

So maybe next time out I'll give it a try. Also plan to take the subway enfemme and take a rails to trails bike rider enfemme this years..... Got to have goals!! hehe

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Hello Karen, Well, I am just so confused, I clicked on your photos expecting to see some picutres of an attractive CD out on a trip. But all I saw was some very nice photos of a beautifull woman, so what gives where is the CD ???? LOve Jean Marie
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Thanks Jean Marie... Your too sweet.... And you've found me out!! Lol. Actually I hired a female stunt double and I just follow her around taking photos!! Expensive but look at all the money I save by not having to buy all those female clothing and makeup and hair!! Hehehe

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NOT...being mean mouthed...sincerely-------

in MY world? hun,..lose the red hair and those brown pants.......

the rest are great. ya look femme to ME!

I'm proud of ya.

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Hi Karen--
I did talk to my friend, and she said she never had a problem with check-ins and other matters. This was in the discussion part of a meeting, and I didn't get details on why she felt comfortable with this, though. As I've said, I seldom if ever get asked to show ID for my Visa debit card, but hotels may be different in this regard.

My own experiences with hotels the last four years have always been as part of the band, so I just show up and go to my assigned room. I haven't had to check in under my own name, so I don't know the procedures. They haven't asked for ID, though. Maybe one of these days I'll find someone else in my room when I get there--who knows?

Michelle had to travel all over the country for her job, and she hasn't talked about the post 9-11 airline problems she might have encountered before her name change became legal. I remember that she started encountering the reverse passing problem--people began "ma'am" ing her when she was dressed 'male,' too.

I hope you can get out on the rail trails soon. They're fun no matter what gender you happen to be that day!
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